The reactive life -- The prodigal on the other side of the palace -- Understanding your woundedness -- Where does it hurt? -- Reacting to pain -- The origins of reactive living -- Surviving broken attachments -- Shame on me -- The impact of trauma -- The loss of your real self -- Losing touch with your soul -- The responsive life -- Reintroduction -- Taking your life back -- Developing healthy boundaries -- Expanding your recovery plan -- A life taken back.