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Title:
It wasn't your fault : freeing yourself from the shame of childhood abuse with the power of self-compassion
Author:
Engel, Beverly.
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Publication Information:
Oakland, CA : New Harbinger Publications, 2015.
Physical Description:
vi, 256 pages ; 23 cm
Summary:
"Shame is one of the most destructive of human emotions. If you suffered childhood physical or sexual abuse, you may experience such intense feelings of shame that it almost seems to define you as a person. In order to begin healing, it's important for you to know that it wasn't your fault. In this gentle guide, therapist and childhood abuse expert Beverly Engel presents a mindfulness and compassion-based therapeutic approach to help you overcome the debilitating shame that keeps you tied to the past. By following the step-by-step exercises in this book, you'll gain a greater understanding of the root cause of your shame. And by cultivating compassion toward yourself, you will begin to heal and move past your painful experiences. Recent studies show that trauma survivors, particularly those with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) resulting from abuse, can greatly benefit from incorporating elements of self-compassion into their treatment. Furthermore, the practice of self-compassion has been shown to decrease PTSD symptoms, including, self-criticism, thought suppression, and rumination. This book is based on the author's powerful and effective Compassion Cure program. With this book, you will develop the skills needed to finally put a stop the crippling self-blame that keeps you from moving on and being happy. You'll learn to focus on your strengths, your courage, and your extraordinary ability to survive. Most of all, you'll learn to replace shame with its counter emotion-pride"--

"Shame is one of the most destructive of human emotions. And while anyone can suffer from lingering shame, those who were abused in childhood tend to feel it the most. In It Wasn't Your Fault, a therapist presents a compassion-based therapeutic approach to help survivors of physical and sexual abuse overcome the debilitating shame that often keeps them tied to the past. By offering step-by-step techniques for understanding the root cause of shame, as well as exercises in mindfulness and compassion for the self and others, this book will help readers begin to heal and move past painful experiences"--
Language:
English
Contents:
The shame/compassion connection. How and why child abuse creates shame ; Why shame is so debilitating ; How compassion can heal the shame of childhood abuse -- The compassion cure program. The obstacles to self-compassion ; Receiving compassion from others ; Allowing yourself to feel your pain -- Practicing the five aspects of self-compassion.. Self-understanding ; Self-forgiveness ; Self-acceptance ; Self-kindness ; Self-encouragement.
ISBN:
9781626250994
Format :
Book

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