PART 1 : The hiding. Are you a good girl in hiding? -- Chasing expectation : hiding behind her good performance -- My not-so-extreme makeover : hiding behind her good reputation -- With a wink and a smile : hiding behind her fake "fine" -- Martha and my many things : hiding behind her acts of service -- The rule follower : hiding behind her spiritual disciplines -- Can't fall apart : hiding behind her strength and responsibility -- Picket fences : hiding behind her comfort zone -- When it gets ugly : hiding behind her indifference -- Hide-and-seek : game over -- -- PART 2 : The finding. Receive : on truth and trusting -- Remain : on quiet and time -- Respond : on worship and service -- Remember : on setting your mind -- -- PART 3 : The freedom of being found. Safe, even when it hurts -- Safe, even in failure -- Safe, even when it all goes wrong -- Safe, even when you don't feel safe.