Something's not working -- Kids are people, too -- Are you making your child's behavior worse? -- Bringing out the best in your child -- The power and the struggle (and some solutions) -- Using what you can control to manage what you can't -- The positive side of misbehavior: learning life's lessons -- The four mistaken goals of misbehavior -- Sibling rivalry: everyone can just get along (most of the time, anyway) -- Bringing everyone together -- Taking the toolbox home.