Admit it -- Commit -- Level the playing field -- Stop the nonsense -- Grab their attention -- Shock and awe them -- Keep shocking -- Parent 'em where it hurts -- Establish end stops -- Exercise discipline -- Stop explaining yourself -- Take back the power -- Overcome blind spots -- Hold your ground -- Allow for natural consequences -- Refuse to deal -- Buy less -- Develop real winners -- Work them -- Unspoil in public -- Unspoil yourself -- Promote self-sufficiency -- Make room for amends -- Collaborate -- Give (and take) thanks -- Claim your rights -- Take a bow.