The altered state of being in love -- A good-enough match? -- Marriage contract and prenupual agrrement : reflecting your true intentions -- How marriage will change you, for better or for worse -- How having kids will affect your marriage -- Marrying the in-laws -- The possibility of divorce : stacking the odds to prevent it -- Changing your mind : deciding not to marry now -- Smart move : premarital counseling and self-counseling -- In the consulting room.