The natural mystery of the loving spirit -- Nine fruits of romantic love -- Seven enduring gifts of maturing love -- Death, resurrection, and the ending of love -- Lust or lusty love : the moral and the spiritual -- Six other styles of intimate failure -- Four cardinal virtues of love's foundation -- Sacramental enhancement : can agape learn from eros? -- The evangelical counsels for all -- Eros and social spirituality -- Eros and Catholic social teaching -- Intimate love and the leader's own spirituality.