A dad is not a male mother : from half-there fathers and peripheral parents to good-enough and better -- Generational mistakes : facing your regrets about your own father so you can become a better dad -- Sons in progress : fathering through the developmental stages -- What dads won't say -- Sons speak out : when dads hurt and disappoint them -- Boys and their tech toys -- The father-son competition -- Love, dad : unlocking the language of feelings -- Nurturing the evolution : a mother's role -- Top ten fathering tips.