Introduction: From double whammy to double wow (commit to action) -- Step 1. Box it up, toss it out (discover a new attitude and a new you) -- Step 2. New people, new places (build a great team and choose a good location) -- Step 3. Define and conquer (understand who is out there and what you want) -- Step 4. Move into ViewHis (know how, where, and when to find him) -- Step 5. For fun or forever? : a match or a maybe? (learn about him early and accurately) -- Step 6. Better sex now than ever (get ready for intimacy : the fun and facts of mature sex) -- Step 7. Into his arms or into his life (unravel the tricky issues of family, friends, ex-spouses, and money) -- Step 8. Commit to it (gain momentum with attitude and a plan).