Trolling for Mr. Right, then settling for Mr. Not Too Wrong : why a man as your #1 goal sabotages happiness -- Complete yourself! : revising a man's place in your life -- Stop jerks in their tracks! : learning to set boundaries for inappropriate behavior -- Reality check : going from fantasy to realistic expectations of men -- Men will be men! : how to work with men, not change them -- Beware his southern head mentality : skills to avoid sexual mishaps -- The real relationship rules : new directions that empower you -- Make him a keeper : tips for nurturing good behavior in your guy -- Revolve around yourself! : developing a life that attracts healthy men -- Wanted--one sperm donor, must be financially secure: how to put marriage and children into perspective -- Goodbye double standards! : navigating sexual stereotypes to get more from men -- Horny and in control! : how to take charge of your sexual desires -- Rock his world--and yours--in bed : pointers for heating up sex -- Put the self back in self-esteem : tools for becoming a self-empowered woman.