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How to make someone love you forever! in 90 minutes or less / by Nicholas Boothman.
Boothman, Nicholas.
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Publication Information:
New York : Workman Pub., [2004]

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viii, 277 pages ; 19 cm
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HQ801 .B764 2004 Adult Non-Fiction Non-Fiction Area

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It's time to stop leaving love to chance. Time to stop being too shy to meet someone, wondering why a promising first date wound up going nowhere, or realizing too late that it happened with the wrong person anyway. Nicholas Boothman has a much better way.

Drawing on his expertise in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Boothman charts a three-step plan that will help anyone find the love of his or her life. Step one: get ready--come to know who you are through honest self-assessment, and then to know what type of person is your matched opposite--i.e., the person who completes you. Step two, the heart of the program, is working seriously on interpersonal skills--how to be charming, not alarming; flirt with confidence; synchronize body and voice to create trust and chemistry; keep enthusiasm high; even how to cast a wide social net and dress for a first meeting.

Step three is about accelerating the kind of intimacy that leads to love, by finding "Me too!" triggers and mastering the art of incidental touch. You'll learn to tap into key emotions through low-, medium-, and high-risk disclosures--and how to intensify the nonverbal signals that turn sparks into a flame. All the while you'll establish a solid romantic foundation to convert this magic 90 minutes into a lifetime of love and commitment.

Author Notes

Nicholas Boothman is a former fashion and advertising photographer of international renown. He became aware that his work for clients such as AT&T and Revlon depended on establishing instant rapport with his subjects. Determined to look deeper into the ways that people connect with each other, he put his cameras aside and earned a license as a Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). Today, he shares his findings with audiences around the world giving keynote speeches, conducting seminars and entertaining his audiences with concrete communication tools.

He has written many books about building instant rapport with people. His latest book is entitled, Convince Them in 90 Seconds: Make Instant Connections that Pay Off in Business and in Life. (Bowker Author Biography)