Unbalanced participation : the fundamental cause of parental disagreement -- Six steps toward shortening Mom's endless list -- Increasing Dad's participation on the parenting team -- Discipline : the pragmatist versus the idealist -- Father knows best : a strict Dad and lenient Mom -- One woman and three babies : a strict Mom and lenient Dad -- Everything you need to known about discipline : practical consequences by age -- How women and men communicate differently with kids : what we can learn from each other -- Networking : the last bastion of women's work -- Letting go : how to survive life transitions together -- Help! : how to stop "losing it" with each other : time-out for parents -- Tactics and temperament : how children create parental conflict and what you can do about it -- Sibling rivalry and the parenting team -- Nourishing each other : the parenting team can't live without it.