Entering into the mismatch -- In Leslie's words : a story of loneliness, fear, perseverance, faith -- In Lee's words : a story of anger, resentment, conviction, renewal -- The players : God, your spouse, and a mentor -- Giving your spouse what God gave you -- The chill, the children, and the most challenging question -- Before you tell your spouse about God -- What to say when words are hard to find -- The power of a praying spouse -- Avoiding the dating traps -- When Christians are out of sync -- Conclusion: Into the future of your mismatch.