Is multiculturalism bad for women? / Whose culture? / Liberal complacencies / My culture made me do it / Is western patriarchal feminism good for third world / minority women? / Siding with the underdogs / Barbaric rituals? / Promises we should all keep in common cause / Between norms and choices / Varied moral world / Culture beyond gender / Liberalism's sacred cow / Should sex equality law apply to religious institutions? / How perfect should one be? And whose culture is? / Culture constrains / Plea for difficulty / Reply